"Will you marry me" and Will you be my main chick?"

     
   

     As famous as this sentence is ;"WILL YOU MARRY ME?"and as it takes ladies to cloud nine,and another world of great joy,it clearly means other things to different "male species". I mean men. It can also mean;" WILL YOU BE MY MAIN CHICK?" (My major woman) And the lady in whose heart is filled with joy at that special moment of her dear life says "YES". Lol...funny right?
        To some men especially, this sentence only means that he only wants one woman in his house to make it a home,one woman to be the mother of his children, one woman to bear his surname,one woman to basically be and do everything,but that doesn't mean he doesn't have other ladies to attend to outside. It just means she's the only one who has a ring on her finger. That is the only difference! The RING!
     There was a story a woman shared online about her husband who was having an affair with other women. She kept praying and praying like a " religious-like" woman would do,and hoping for a change,just like the woman in the movie "WAR ROOM". So another woman commented that same thing happened to her but she had to deal with the problem physically( challenging her husband's concubine) According to her " War Room nondey work for Naija o! Na for Oyinbo pipu dem! 😂😂😂 really? Oyinbo people? Lmao!!! Another woman was like she deals with the problem properly. Apparently, she knows all her husbands concubines!😱 Ha! She has even seen them and does not really have a problem with it as long as she us well taken care of by her husband. Nawa oh!👏👏👏
     So that is why sometimes this "Will you marry me" word may not be what it seems. A lot of ladies still dream and hope for the question to be asked.,(like its a life goal). Will you rather be a praying woman who hopes for a change, or the woman who digs it with her rival or the very accommodating woman who has the husband's concubine as friends? All the same the choice is yours? Which one of the actions will you carry out? 😁

A Night With a Stranger

       What kind of situation led to the the separation of the lovely couple that everyone admires in the neighborhood?
       Mr. Johnson has been married to Victoria for about 6 years,and they have a child together. They were one of the couples whose LOVE RELATIONSHIP would have made any one(single or not) to wish to be like them. Mtlr Johnson is a handsome businessman who any woman would like,and his wife Vicky was a banker. They had even coined a name for themselves ;VIXEN (which is the combination of 'Vic' and "Son" in their names). Anywhere they went,their love glowed for everyone to see.
       Well...Mr. Johnson was in his office one day when a lady visited him and presented a business proposal to him, of which they later discussed about in a place. They later hung out sometimes during lunch and talked about business. Somehow, they got a little bit closer and formed a close acquaintance. Rita was a beautiful and intelligent young lady whose smile lit up the place. A fateful evening came, it was raining. Johnson had already almost gotten to the house when he forgot a very important document, so he drove back to his office, only to find Rita sitting on one of the chairs in the reception, with her suit(which was drained in water) off,shivering. He immediately advanced for her to take a warm cup of coffee in his office till he finds what he come to collect. And they went. That was when the devil stung! Well, Rita did not see the need to take coffee, instead she came on straight to Mr. Johnson's body for warmth! This was the kind of warmth she wanted. So,she succeeded in making both of them warm,and the deed was done! He had slept with her.
       Since that evening, Johnson couldn't stop thinking of what he did. For weeks ,he felt guilty. He loved his wife more than he could even explain. How could he have done this? How would his dear wife feel if he tells her? What has he done! He thought of all these as tears rushed from his eyes while he was in his office. But this night...this night,he made up his mind to let the cat out of the bag. Sitting on the edge of the bed that night,he suddenly blurted out; "Honey... I...I cheated on you". It was as if the whole world fell on Victoria. She was hurt. And he begged incessantly, but all to no avail. Since then,the marriage of the once lovely couple went sour and sad.
       The BIG questions are: If you were Johnson,are you going to tell your wife you have been unfaithful? If you were Victoria, what exactly are you going to do?
       I need your view,opinions,and advices because a lot of marriages go through this kind of challenges everyday. How can Johnson fix this?how can they live together in love again? Advise both of them.
     

CAN A MAN BE ACCUSED OF RAPING HIS WIFE

Basically,we all know that "RAPE" is a forbidden act no one wants to experience. It is a form of having sexual intercourse without the person's consent, with or without force. It may be done by deceit,influence or even the cause of drugging someone and commiting the act without the person knowing!(yes,I know people don't know that this one can also be rape. Well...now you know). But a lot of people are still confused and want to know if a man could be accused of raping his wife. Because there are situations where a man would rape his wife because she refused to have sexual intimacy with him. Sometimes,the man might even injure the wife as a result of forcing her to have sex. Can this be called rape? 

Okay,what if the wife drags her husband to Court,will she succeed in the case? Will the man be punished? What will he be accused of if he injured her in the process? These are questions many people ask.Or is it because a man can go into the farm whenever he likes(according to the Holy Books) something like this happen?Or do people just use this phrase to justify their acts? I don't know. We seldom times hear of these kind of cases because some women are even scared of taking their own husbands to jail. How is that even possible! They try to stay and save their marriage instead. But on the other hand, some women summon up courage to do that.
       My own opinion is that the woman should be ready to have sexual intercourse with her husband when he needs it,afterall,that is one of the reasons for marriage; COMPANIONSHIP. On the other hand, the men,hmmmm...the men should "try" to put into consideration his spouse's feelings as well as her reasons for the refusal. End of matter! Still,some people may disagree with me. That is why this article is put up here. I want to know people's opinions too! So feel free to share your sincere thoughts people!

Student and Teacher Drama!

 Can a student write an exam in anything other than in his uniform?

        Anybody may easily answer this question,being that a student is recognized and identified through his uniform. But it seems that some students may want to do otherwise, only that I am not sure if that student will be allowed into the exam hall,let alone take the exam.
       The retired custom officer; Hameed Ali was appointed by our President Muhammadu Buhari as the Comptroller of the Customs Service. He was instructed to come in his uniform for screening by the Senate of which he refused giving his reasons. He was summoned again today being the 16th of March,2017 but he did not still appear in his custom "uniform". The Senate refused to give him audience because of this reason; Hameed had bluntly disobeyed again saying that he is not obligated to put on any uniform and that there was no law which provides that he must wear his "uniform",saying he would bring his lawyer to defend this fact. Hmmm,for something as easy as wearing uniform! Some people will say it is indiscipline,stubbornness, and what have you. But I am just thinking; " What is he afraid or ashamed of ?" Can he not just get a new one (even if he misplaced his former ones) or he should borrow or something! But looking at this matter in another perspective, is it necessary or a must for him to come to the House of Senate in his custom uniform to answer questions? Is it not his good work that really matters? Anyway,Hameed Ali is pardoned for now,to appear at the Senate House of Assembly at another fixed date. Let us wait and see if he'll comply to the instructions given him.
       Till then,I cannot answer the question above. I don't know if the teacher will allow the student take the exam!